Name : XYZ (name masked)
Date of Birth : 26-03-1986
Time of Birth : 03:45 Hrs (IST)
Place of Birth : Mumbai (India)

XYZ (name masked)
According to the Vedic Astrology my observations are as follows:Capricorn ascendant and lord Saturn which is transiting retrograde at the time of birth and placed in the house of desires, ambitions, achievements and gains. Saturn lord of your own personality is giving aspect to self house, indicating at times your stubbornness is on the higher side. Which may give rigidness, inclination towards ambitions or gains etc., affecting your other disorders. Impacting on your behavior, disturbing bedroom life etc.
This may be causing life with partner. Igniting him also.
It will be better to pin point your priorities – family or ambition. Avoid irritating behavior or grumbling (if any). Because lord of ambitions and gains is afflicting house of marriage.
This may be cause of married life.
Now, What you can do, apart from improving self behavior, Puja for lord shiva will be good for you. You can pray lord shiva for blessings.
Importantly, unless horoscope of both the natal is compared and tested, it is not wise blame only one.
Both the horoscopes should be tested simultaneously.